Need help with men!!?

Ok so I have a hard time playing hard to get.... When I meet y azz dudes we hit it off for sure but u know for every y guy they're 20 gorgeous girls Who also want them... well I'm tired of being just another girl. So how do make them want u more then u want them? I'm tired of being the chaser in most cases... I wanna be chased!:) please help! Gracias